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Hello Everyone,

Have you become the person you desire to be? Do you know who you are? This is the deep part of my life in what I have come to realize, learn, and grow to become a better version of who I am in Christ Jesus into His image. That is my main goal and purpose in life. I remember many years ago when I was going through the darkest night of my soul, and I asked God what is the whole purpose of all this pain and suffering in my life? God said, “To be formed in the image of Jesus Christ”. After I read this to my oldest daughter, she told me that “I wish I knew that mom, that you have gone through this, it would have helped me.” It’s hard and scary to be honest, open, and vulnerable. I knew that the journey was not going to be easy for me, and that things might not go as I desired or wanted it to be. If I truly want to follow Jesus I must walk through a journey of suffering and many difficult trials, because this world is not my eternal home. I have walked through many trails and still overcoming but looking back I am so thankful that through every step of the way God was with me. His name is Emmanuel God with us. I have experienced that He has never ever left me. 

What I have discovered is that God was and is always so close to me. He heard my cry, painful prayers in my deepest hurts of life disappointments, He was with me in the midst of it all. All He would say is “I love you daughter, I Am with you, it will be okay, trust Me” Writing this makes me cry, because I know its so true. He has been always so faithful to bring me through all the hard times. He has always brought me through into victory, even when I thought I would never handle it anymore and the end would come, and I would never get through it ever in my life. Through it all I have learned to become better and stronger and more confident person through the process of life experience. I’ve gained wisdom, knowledge and understanding to relate and have more compassion and love to many people. I am here for you to help you and listen to you and hear your heart and your story. Let’s engage and connect with us at www.believingforabetteryou.comor email me at believingforabetteryou@gmail.com.

Have you ever felt misunderstood, miscommunicated, and mistrusted in your relationships? I been there and I feel you and I understand you. God knows me my heart and you too friend’s.  He sees your every cry, pain, loneliness, hurt, abuse, anger, frustration, struggles, conflicts, difficult times of stress. Whether its’s health challenges of cancer, surgery, Covid Virus affects, death of a loved one, financial stress, divorce, family, marriage, children’s issues, uncertainties, Crises in the world and in your personal life. I have experienced and have felt abandoned, confusion, lies, control, manipulation, being judged, criticized, gossip, and rejected by many people including some family members. Many kinds of fears, fear of unknown, fear of failures, fear of rejection. Depressed, worried, anxious, many losses, lost voice and identity, and many unexpected hardships that are not mentioned here. I’ve been there and I understand you, but God knows and seen it all and He and I care about you. I want you to know that you are not alone. 

What I have found is that there is hope and a good future for you in Christ Jesus. So please never give up, but move forward one step at a time, one day at a time, even one moment at a time. You’ll get through this again and again to the other side of light in the tunnel. If God has brought me through all these trials, He can do the same for you. Trust Him. My favorite thing I do is I always go to my safest true lasting place of my relationship with Jesus, my Heavenly Father, and the Holy Spirit Who lives inside of me. His home is inside of me where I belong. I am always with myself and The Holy Spirit, so I choose to make peace and love with who I am and God inside of me. It’s a choice we make everyday how we will think, say out the words, make decisions, if love, faith, or hate or fear, worry and anxiety. We have a gift of free will to choose what we want and how we want to live our lives. The problem is that if we make wrong choices, it will affect you and everyone around you. I choose life to live from the inside out and good right things to obey and follow God and His instructions of His Word the Bible. Read Deuteronomy 30:15-20. Obey His commandments to love God, myself, and others. The greatest gift is the salvation of your soul and love that I have ever desired and needed. I believe that the greatest need of every human being is to know that they are loved and accepted. Love has been defined differently by many, but true real pure love, lasting forever is from above first from our Heavenly Father Who loves us all unconditionally. There is love from a human being like a husband and wife, that we long to experience in a marriage covenant relationship of commitment, and honor each other unto God. Also, where we can enjoy life together as companionship in oneness and be that healing balm of blessing to each other and others around us.

In the waiting time of these seasons, it is one of the hardest things to endure, but we need it to think through, rest, relax, look back learn grow, prune to prepare for the greater things. Take it as a treasure and enjoy. Be content where you are at, remember it won’t be like this forever. Things always change, but not God. That is why I can only rely fully on God because He only knows what is best for us, what we really need not just what and when we want it. God knows our tendencies, our strengths, and the weaknesses all of us have. He knows when we are ready and not quite ready. It’s all about trusting Him in the midst of uncertainty where you cannot control or figure out. I had to learn to forgive, let go, not hold onto it anymore, walk through a healing process, cleansing and changing my heart and character. To love well by forgiving, releasing, and blessing others in prayer and in truth and deed, to have peace with God and myself. Allow the healing journey and cleansing to take place so the change can come inside of us and others and in our circumstances. 

I hope I have encouraged you today as you read this, as it is encouraging for me to know that I and you are not alone in this journey of life. I pray that you may come closer and deeper with the Lord Jesus Christ, that you may encounter God’s unconditional love that will change your life forever. If you don’t know Jesus, choice today now to pray this prayer from our book “The Power of Choosing Love” 

“In Romans 10:13 it says, “Whoever calls upon the name of

the Lord will be saved.”

Here is a prayer you can pray to receive Christ right now:

“Dear Lord Jesus, I know I am a sinner, and I ask for Your

forgiveness. I believe you died for my sins and rose from

the dead. I trust and follow You as my Lord and Savior.

Guide my life and help me to do Your will. In your name,

Amen.”

Praise God, if you have sincerely prayed that simple prayer,

the angels are rejoicing, and we’re rejoicing with you, as you

have made the most important decision in your life—your

prayer from your heart by faith. Choose daily to follow Jesus

and love Him and let His love radiate to all around you. Share

your salvation and testimony with us and with your children

and your family and friends. Find a gathering of believers in

Jesus near you or on a website which is a Spirit-filled ministry

that speaks about Jesus Christ, Father God, and the Holy

Spirit of Truth. Abundant Blessings from Him to you and yours.”

(Excerpt from p. 117 in James and Tanya Wheeler Book, “The Power of Choosing Love”)

I am so excited and thankful to God and my husband to publish our book and a workbook to share and to bring hope and encouragement to so many people that really need it. Especially in becoming the better version of yourself. There are very great tips, nuggets, truths, and ideas in deep topics like Love, Identity, Healing, Communication, Intimacy, Purity, Forgiveness and Finances, Also Tips for Singles. It has been such a big blessing for many of our readers and I believe it is so valuable for you, your friends and loved ones. 

Join us in this journey of discovering more about who you are and how to become a better version of yourself. Going forward we will be posting very valuable information about the four steps and areas, that will be very important to do and see great results. Follow us on our website and social media platforms, and please share it with your friends and loved ones: 

1. How to know in a deeper way how much God loves me and accepts me just as I am, and how He has made me.

2. How to hear the voice of the Lord with a greater clarity.

3. How to bear the “Fruit of the Spirit” more consistently.

4. How to more and more discover and fully realize that the greatest source of wealth we have, are the Healthy Relationships we have with one another.

This will help you heal your heart and fix issues of the past so you can move forward with confidence.

Want more? Join us and order your copy of "The Power of Choosing Love." Click on this link: (www.amazon.com/dp/1737586517). Also get the Manual Workbook that goes along with the book (www.amazon.com/dp/1737586509). Check out all that we do our products and services at our website www.believingforabetteryou.com. Get your FREE 30 min Consultation. We are Authors, Marriage and Relationship Coach and Mentors, and my husband James Wheeler is a financial professional. We are here for you to help you get to next level and become a better version of yourself. Let’s engage soon.

Thank you and Many Blessings

Tanya Wheeler - Author, Marriage and Relationships Coach and Mentor and Inspirational Speaker.